I am not taking credit for this cause it's from a weight loss letter I subsribe to, but I couldn't agree with what it says anymore and these tips or whatever you call them are exactly my mindset I have now that has realy helped me a lot!! After each tip I have written how it applies to me and my journey though!
1. Don't drink your calories. There's nothing sadder than realizing you just consumed hundreds of calories by sipping a sweet drink... and you're still hungry! For the most part, I look for drinks with no more than 50 calories per cup, and I always check the labels carefully for the total servings per bottle. - I gave up my much loved coffee drinks! I 've never really drank anything but water, no cokes or tea or anything but coffee drinks were a big weakness! I also gave up alcohol. Although that's mostly because I don't have the time or the money to drink, and I will NOT say no to a drink every now and then if I really feel like it!
2. The 80/20 rule. I live by it. It means that 80 percent of the time, I eat what I know I should be eating. And 20 percent of the time, I allow myself to stray a bit. It's important to indulge every once in a while... like, maybe, 20 percent of the time! I will usually eat whatever I want at least 1 meal a week. Although there have been weeks when I didn't at all and there have been weeks when I ate more like 80/20 bad being the 80!
3. Don't turn a bad meal into a bad week. So you made a poor food choice. You're human. Don't give up and throw in the towel just because you overate. Jump right back into things at your next meal. No biggie. Truly. This one was the hard for me for years. I would do so good on a new diet/lifestyle plan for weeks...then I would come upon a holiday or party or something where I felt I couldn't control my eating and I would go crazy and then feel like a total failure and make myself feel better by eating more and more and more...and well you know the outcome! I felt like all the work I had done was useless and that I might as wel give up. I have this one under control now though! When I find myself eating poorly, or missing a day at the gym I don't beat myself up. I stay positive and remind myself that it wasn't one or two days of poor decisions that got me in this shape so it's going to take more than one or two days of bad decisions to undo all the work I have done already. Reminding myself that this is not a diet, it is a new way of life really helps. I have the rest of my life to get to where I want to be!
4. Identify and avoid your trigger foods. These are the foods you can't be trusted around -- the ones where "just a few" turns into WAY too much; the foods that seem to make you hungrier and hungrier. Don't keep these foods in the house. They're too tempting and not worth the trouble... CHOCOLATE! Nuff said.
5. Don't make excuses -- it's all about being prepared. The Boy Scouts know what they're talking about! If you know you're going out to dinner, check out the menu online so you can plan ahead and make smart choices. And always keep emergency snacks handy -- in your purse, car, desk drawer... wherever you might need them. Then you won't need to make excuses. I have recently had to travel back and forth between rsvl and fayetteville and each time I have brought snacks and all my meals if I would have to be there overnight. Or if I didn't bring my meals I would look at the menu for different restaurants in town and figure out what I could eat. I used to be terrible about eating fast food when I was traveling cause I thought I didn't have a choice. Now I know, I do. It's up to me. I have to be in control and prepared and no one else is going to help me. Even the "healthy" choices at fast food places usually don't fit into my plan so why waste money buying them only to be hungry later in the day when you cant eat anything else casue yuo overloaded on points/calories then? Not worth it!
reminder
Do you ever get frustrated because things are moving too slowly in your life? Many people don't realize that building a foundation for success does not happen overnight. It is a slow process in which you are constantly working and learning. After all, that foundation must remain strong, even in times of failure or crisis. This takes time! You may have to remind yourself that "failing" is only failure if you quit; otherwise it's a learning opportunity. So don't worry if your life seems to be moving in slow motion. Concentrate on building a solid foundation and learning from your back steps
My Plan
So I've been going at this weight loss/ healthy lifestyle/ exercise/ love myself shit for years now. Seriously, when will I just get it? I am a quitter and loser. The fact that it's a couple of years later and I'm here starting over is proof positive. I've got a million and half excuses as to why I gained the weight back but not a single one of them matters. I need to do this. I need to push myself and get over the quitter mentality. I've learned that I'm a miserable person when I'm unhealthy. If anything came out of previous success it's that knowledge. Being healthy makes me happy. Simple as that. I have to do this. MY life depends on it.
I am setting a goal for myself of 5% of my body weight at a time. Since I weigh 210 pounds right now, that means 10.5 pounds is 5% of my body weight, I think....math and I have never gotten along very well. I'll try something a little different this time and figure out what 5% of each new weight is too...maybe that will keep me more motivated.
Anyway, as I meet my goals, I plan on rewarding myself! I NEVER reward myself, I wont even buy myself the right kind of shampoo half the time because I hate wasting money on me. But self help is a great thing and something to look forward to. My rewards will always non food items and always something personal.
I will also make a meal plan each saturday night, buy the groceries sunday and stick with it through the week. I will be making Brian do this with me and he will lose more weight than me and I will get jealous but that will not make me quit like it would have in the past. I will be able to fit into my clothes again. I will want to dress up and put on makeup and fix myhair again. I will feel like a human being again. And I WILL learn to love myself FINALLY!
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